Its been a while didn't updated my blog. Lets straight to the point. Why life so complicated for single? Somehow, for some individual who are struggle in this life, they will feel that this life is so unfair, cruel and mean. Am i not attractive enough? Anything wrong with me? When we gather among our friend, they started telling story about their relationship life. Love, marriage planning, engagement planning etc. For those who are still single? The only thing they can do is just listen, say a few thought, and ok bye! So, here are some tips I think maybe suitable or we can make it as a guide..
1. BE HAPPY
On this point, just be happy and do what you enjoyed with. Sports, yoga, movie, cooked delicious dish, etc..anything. As long as you enjoyed it.
2. MAKE A LOT OF FRIENDS
So, by making a lot of friends either through social media such as FB, Wechat, Twitter and so on, don't be afraid to make a friend. Just a friend. Maybe you can share or get a lot idea about what life is. But, please beware. Some people are taking things for granted. It is all up to you how you manage and control your limits. While you making a friend, and if there is someone catch your attention, then why not just move on for the next stage.*wink wink*
3. IGNORE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK
Ok, at this point I really put it as ATTENTION for Malaysian ladies. When a young ladies getting old and still single, there will be a negative thought would say we are not "laku" and having a nickname as "andartu". Just ignore it. They don't even know what is happening to us. A way to shut their mouth is, just saying " Jodoh saya adalah kat mana2, tapi mak cik tu bila nak masuk kubur?"
4. NEVER LOSE HOPE AND FAITH
Never ever blaming GOD for what HE did to right now. HE have HIS own plan. For us, maybe it cruel and meanie. But somehow, when put a lot of faith and patience on it, surely a very good things will happen. We never know what HE going to do with us. But, never lose hope.